All that being said, I have 2 groups of friends. In 1 group, they have a kid or two. The guy ditched them. Ooor they had to get married at 18 and barely have any money. The guy had to drop out of college to provide, etc. In the other group, they are EXTREMELY taboo on sex. It's almost like saying bomb in an airport to these people, and it is frustrating as someone who is open to sex to talk to these people too.