If a boy hates sports, cars, and fighting, but loves dresses, makeup, dolls, and tea parties.then that's what he likes. We shouldn't say, Oh, those are girl things, so he must be a transgendered M-to-F person. We should just say, Oh, hey. This boy likes dresses, makeup, dolls, and tea parties. Cool. So what's for dinner? And people shouldn't define their own identities in terms of culturally enforced stereotypes, either!