One time I asked a girl Do you still want to go out with me? (I lost her phone number 4 times at least). She said.I.guess. I said You don't have to, and walked away, so I realized, .I. guess really meant, no. But I approached her again with my phone, and said lets do this right this time, may I have your number? She said yes. I accidentally deleted it (yeah, I know), and got it again. It didn't work out between us, but, was I too aggressive? I don't know.