I just turned 20, and I'm still a virgin. I actually haven't gone much past kissing with any guy. Some of my friends think I'm weird for it, but I don't care. I don't feel ready yet, and I know it would be traumatic for me if I tried to force myself. I always just tell them I'll get to it eventually, maybe once I'm in a really stable and loving relationship. Let me tell you, not many college guys I know are looking for that right now.